Here are some tips to help you keep your “cool” on the road.
For example, keep seat belts fastened at all times; keep hand, feet, and objects to yourself. Don’t start the car unless the rules are being followed.
Take a Pack:
Have children pack a backpack (or bag) with things to keep them occupied and comfortable (books, tapes, games, snacks, etc.).
Establish a reward for good behavior, for example, stopping at the video store and renting a movie.
Children like to feel useful and can be put in charge of reading road signs, watching for the right exit, or picking the next gas station. On a long trip, let your child mark the route on a map with the highlighter as you travel.
Count billboards on each side of the road, out-of-state or weird license plates; number of cows or horses (if traveling in the country.)
Give each child a turn in deciding which tape to play or radio station to tune in. This can cut down on complaints such as “he always gets to choose the music.”
Ignore fighting and compliment them when they are behaving well.
Let children know what the consequences are for misbehavior, for example, losing the privilege of stopping at the library or renting a video. Remember, consequences work only when you consistently follow through.
When All Else Fails
Find a safe place to pull off the road. Take some deep breaths and say: “I don’t want to drive when you are €¦(fighting, arguing, etc.) If we can’t solve the problem, I’m going to turn around and drive home.” When everyone is calm, take a few minutes to try to negotiate a solution. If nothing works, drive home.
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